Is This My Life or Your Life?

Have you ever felt like you said to much? Sometimes we can say to much, share to much and expect to much. I have come to realize there are only a handful of people who a person can really trust for help and support and that's even doubtful. It's amazing to me just how many people "run" when you are in a personal crisis. Years ago I lost what I thought was supposed to be my best friend because she decided I shouldn't of chose to stay with my husband... well I did and she chose to leave - based on what she thought was best for MY life. I have come to know people in general are incredibly selfish and lack the knowledge of what selfless means. To give yourself freely to another regardless of how YOU feel is selfless... it's called loving and accepting people "where they're at".

People with true maturity and knowledge of selfless love will understand the phrase above. I have been around to many judgemental people with opinions on what I should do without having asked for them. You know, it really doesn't matter what other people think of you as long as you feel right about you - without hesitation... just feel right, regardless of circumstance. Don't ever make a decision based on what someone else thinks or you will live with regret. This is YOUR life and you are responsible for YOUR life... not your best friend, mom, dad, grandma, etc... just you.

Making mistakes is part of growth in life... and if I may share something - you will continue to make the same mistakes over and over again unless and until you learn whatever life is trying to teach you. Don't expect different results to a problem when you are giving it the same reaction. If you find yourself repeating a problem over and over again look at your approach. The definition of insanity is repeating the same actions and expecting different results. If you want change then make, be or show the change. Be a teacher, an encourager and a helper to others who need guidance. Most people don't come to others for opinions rather for guidance and support - even though they may ask for your opinion, it's really the support they are after so be careful. You may be wondering how you can support something that is totally wrong... well you don't have to and are advised to give your suggestions and or opinions IN LOVE - did you get that? In love... nobody will listen to anything you have to say unless it's coming from a loving selfless place - that's where the growing is done - in love. If your not loving or can't understand what that means you have no business giving advice... you are more likely enjoying the gossip or drama in someone else's life because yours is unfulfilled and boring. Don't expect people to respond like you would - people are different and please don't ever compare someone to another... PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT and no two are the same. Lastly, you are never to old to change. Growth takes place until death... but only if you allow it to. Think about that.