I think this article may be a bit judgemental but here it goes...
Most men need to wake up and take note of how they are treating their wives/children. Being married, providing for a family and an occasional conversation does not cut the mustard. To much time is being spent "relaxing" after work watching sports, news, etc.. When was the last time you shut the TV off and asked her out to dinner? How about a sweet gesture of flowers or a card that says I care? I see so many men going and doing for other people and when it comes to their own families, well, they can just wait - unacceptable!
Life is short... your kids will grow up and move out before you know it. Don't waste time getting to know them or becoming involved in their life. Will you want them to be involved in your life when your senile and lonely? Just company can be very soothing whether your 10 or 80 - and remember we get what we give.
Don't think guys that "they just know I care" or "She knows I love her".... it takes "updating" reminding them often even if it's as your leaving for work - a simple, "I love you" or "your very important to me" or just "Thank you" for who she is. You want a better wife guys then love her and she will be better. Spend time with her and she will cherish that time and respect you for making that time.
Time is invaluable and as we all know - short... don't believe me? Go to your local cementary and check out the dates on the head stones... then take note how many just have one body buried... you will spend enough time apart soon enough - don't waste now!
I question why it is that women choose to be with guys who behave this way. We can each be responsible only for our own actions and therefore pointing the finger doesn't work well.
ReplyDeleteIt is by our actions that men will realize that they either want to be with us or not. As women, we need to be whole ourselves first and then perhaps men will see it and want to be with us. If not, we will know how to be happy with ourselves for company. After all is said and done, the only one we can change is ourselves.